This one behaviour will attract most people to you:

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Whether in a romantic context or not, our lives tend to flow better when we're in harmony with other people.

Perhaps you want to be promoted at work, succeed on a podcast interview, win the girl over on that first date, or command more influence as a creator.

Improving our connections, reducing resistance and rejection, and increasing attraction can get us far.

It can be challenging to do this. Human nature can be seemingly unpredictable, and people vary in their preferences.